you're from the seventies but i'm a nineties bitch

old enough to know better and young enough to not even care.

queer romantic body positive sex positive pro choice liberal feminist asexual. general hate free zone. my ask is always open.

i'm pretty sure the internet is making me exponentially more stupid.

this blog is (occasionally, without warning) very NSFW.

I AM NOT SPOILER FREE. so there's that.

and i've damn well earned this one: i'm one of those obnoxious blaine stans that your mom warned your about. (i didn't realise demanding equal representation made me obnoxious. but i'm often wrong about these things.)

mostly, this is glee, and the objectification of darren criss and chris colfer. other things you will find: doctor who, buffy the vampire slayer, supernatural, star trek, star wars, and (mostly) queer politics.


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"I grew up in Clovis, California. It’s a very, very Conservative, you know, Republicans everywhere type town. For as long as I can remember, one of the biggest political issues in our country currently is gay marriage and all that type of stuff… I recently went back for a visit and I still saw, even though the election was almost a year ago, there was still signs that said "Yes on Prop 8, Ban Gay Marriage" still in people’s front yards. And you know, people there weren’t just harassed when I was growing up, they were killed for being gay. So my first reaction was, "Oh my God, I’m going to be gay on network television. That’s terrifying." But now there’s been so much great material and so much hope… I was a little scared at first, but now I’m so happy and I’m so proud of the stuff that’s been on the show. I think it maybe was a way for me to rebel against that whole way, is, "Fine. You said it was wrong when I was growing up? Well now I’m gonna be that on TV and, you know, I’m probably gonna be the face for gay rights for the rest of my life!" 

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so i saw that several times you mentioned seeing cordelia chase as asexual and i never even thought of her from that perspective and it seems incredibly interesting! and i wondered if you could tell me more? about how you see her & all your ace cordy headcanons? i'm very much here for that
vampireisabitstrong vampireisabitstrong Said:


OK YES so right off the bat i just love the idea of a character who is very sexualized by other characters (and to some extent by the show itself) not experiencing sexual attraction, because idk there’s a lot of media portrayal of ace or ace-implied characters as being just completely sexless or unattractive to others, not existing on even the same plane as allosexual people, so that it’s all very smooth and clean and there’s never any conflict of interest and everyone fits into their own little boxes and that’s like. not the way the world works at all. obviously sexual attraction is very very often unreciprocated or unreciprocable and to ignore the fact that many ace people are put in the uncomfortable position of having someone sexualizing them or like at the very least hitting on them is to deny the existence of a very large portion of ace life and what makes being ace difficult

and that’s especially interesting in cordy’s case bc multiple times we see her using other people’s sexual attraction to her to get what she wants. she is no stranger to the sexual world & she very much knows how to operate within it, and idk i just like the idea of an ace character that isn’t ace because of inexperience or trauma or confusion or any of the other stereotypical (though totally and completely valid!!!!) reasons for asexuality in a character. cordy just happens to be that way, is pretty aware of it and is also aware that a lot of people find her attractive, and she deals accordingly

the first relationship we see her maintain for an extended period of time is with xander, and canonically they never have sex (the implication is that xander’s first sexual experience is with faith, AFTER he and cordy break up). there’s some discussion of cordy in early seasons by characters who don’t like her (buffy, willow, etc) that associate her ~*~bitchy prom queen~*~ traits with her having a lot of sex with a lot of people, but we don’t have any reason to believe that she actually does?? 

like maybe by her sophomore year of high school she’s dated some guys, maybe even a lot of guys, to cultivate that image she’s worked so hard on. maybe she has a pattern of breaking up with them whenever things start to get too sexual for her, because she’s had sex a few times and she doesn’t care for it and she doesn’t see any reason to put herself through it unless she really has to. maybe one of the things that she likes about xander is that he never pressures her for sex, and not just because that makes him a “nice guy” but because she doesn’t feel like she’s bracing herself for something she’d really rather not have happen

remember when faith first shows up in season 3 and she says that a good slaying makes her “hungry and horny” and cordy is blatant about the fact that she thinks that’s gross? or remember in season 1 of angel when cordy was way more interested in swinging a rich guy than a /hot guy/ because the greatest excitements in her life were buying new clothes and fighting the good fight? remember in pylea when princess!cordy was supposed to have sex with the (super conventionally attractive) groosalugg and instead they just ended up sitting and talking and devising a plan to start a newer better government? remember how cordy was very much in love with angel without giving us any reason to think that sex had anything to do with it (think about POWER ACE COUPLE cordy and angel, cordy doesn’t like sex and angel can’t have sex with someone he loves, literally meant 2 be)

liiiiiiiike ace cordy in high school ace cordy in LA ace cordy 100% of the time forever and always you can’t convince me otherwise


"who do you pair that character with?"

happiness. life. being happy. not being dead. i want them to be alive and safe. and happy. that’s what i’m getting at. that is the direction this is going in. that’s my only wish

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Got dat @nayarivera

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CaleyVersfelt: Darren is a amazing guy that he is. He cant stop complimenting me with my eyes and he thinks I’m a charmer to him as friend. This man is a gift. The star of Glee came to one of the Events for Special Olympics for the World game event last night and we started to talk and now friends now.

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Random thought: I want there to be an app sort of like Grindr but for fandom friendships. “Here are all the geeks in your area who will talk with you about Buffy for six hours straight.”

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I’m trying hard to live by Cat Principles.

1- I am glorious above all things
2- Eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy, play when bored
3- Affection is given and received on my terms and only mine
4- Show displeasure clearly.
5- NO
6- Demand the things you want. If they aren’t given, demand them again, but louder this time.
7- If you are touched when you don’t want to be, say so. If they continue to touch you, make them bleed.

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At least one of us is comfortable.



What matters most is how you see yourself.

(And because I enjoy CB’s art tags: #read somewhere that rhinos are just fat unicorns and laughed for about three minutes. #then thought to myself ‘rhinos ya big gawgeous beauts you’re the prettiest unicorns i ever done saw.’)

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